I remember my mom's doctor gave her a height to weight index that told you if you were at healthy weight, overweight, or obese for your height. I don't know where to find a chart like that, but if you show her you're in the right index, I'm sure anyone will have a hard time arguing that.
28 Jun 18 vom Mitglied: Elaya Ice
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Sounds like it is just a mild case. Have her take two chocolates late chip cookies and call you in the morning.
28 Jun 18 vom Mitglied: jengetfit123
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That's a good thing !!!! My wife said the same thing to me, as she was mad at my eating style !!! and weight loss...Keep at it !!! LOL
28 Jun 18 vom Mitglied: DO N OK
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My hubby actually said that my pants were baggy. WOW...
28 Jun 18 vom Mitglied: cstella1
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Wait until disapproval turns into active sabotage.
28 Jun 18 vom Mitglied: @philrmcknight
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Many people will joking criticize to cover their own insecurities. Thank them for noticing your efforts, reinforce that you are on this journey to ensure you will be together for even longer. If your spouse is genuinely concerned that you are too thin, that is when you should consider having them come with for an office consult with your doctor just to reassure them. If they are actively sabotaging your efforts to be healthy for the sake of your life, then it's time for couples counseling to help them deal with the changes.
28 Jun 18 vom Mitglied: ConiMN
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My other half simply goes out and buys food I wish he didn't bring home. Bought a giant king size Pay Day candy bar and left it on the table. It wasn't for him it was to tempt me. I left it there my daughter enjoyed it a few days later. Last night he went out and brought home 2 huge orders of wings. Insisted we needed to have onion rings and mushrooms deep fried. Makes things and says oh I messed this up it needs to be eaten. Really I think not. I tried the onion rings they were good. I explained to him that the wings have 70 calories in each simply not on my list of food choices. I tried them they were good.
He told me I was fat and needed to drop weight for ever ago.
Out right sabotage. I just smile and do my best. @ Phil your so right.
28 Jun 18 vom Mitglied: Samantharox1
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28 Jun 18 vom Mitglied: Mistybenner
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My husband literally forbid me to lose more weight 😆
I said I’m not in q calorie deficit anymore this is my lifestyle n there’s no changing it
28 Jun 18 vom Mitglied: rosio19
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Lol phil my husband literally eats a family size chip bag in bed 🛏 talk about trying to (intentionally or intentionally ) sabotage 😆. Well I got this I eat what I want, not what u parade in my face 🙌🏼
28 Jun 18 vom Mitglied: rosio19
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28 Jun 18 vom Mitglied: rosio19
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I’m sorry you don’t feel support from her in this...lots of us here in the same boat. Just reassure her that you love her and are doing this to improve yourself. Best wishes.
28 Jun 18 vom Mitglied: momma6224
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I like to taunt my wife about it, her sense of humor is practically non-existent which makes it even funnier. :D
28 Jun 18 vom Mitglied: @philrmcknight
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Awe maybe she doesn’t like all the looks you’re getting!
28 Jun 18 vom Mitglied: CrashtestDawnie
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Thanks for the support everyone! Today I got an earful about how “you know there’s so many bad things about that KETO diet, (which I enjoy several meals but not doing full KETO). She’s trying to lose # too but won’t listen to or find factual info for herself. Just all the bad things I’m doing to my body. THANKS HONEY Talk to the hand! ✋ Good shedding everyone!
29 Jun 18 vom Mitglied: 66Pack
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Isnt that funny how they start saying you look to thin .. as if
29 Jun 18 vom Mitglied: daione
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