66Pack's Notizen, 28 Jun 18

I remember my mom's doctor gave her a height to weight index that told you if you were at healthy weight, overweight, or obese for your height. I don't know where to find a chart like that, but if you show her you're in the right index, I'm sure anyone will have a hard time arguing that.  

Sounds like it is just a mild case. Have her take two chocolates late chip cookies and call you in the morning. 

That's a good thing !!!! My wife said the same thing to me, as she was mad at my eating style !!! and weight loss...Keep at it !!! LOL 

My hubby actually said that my pants were baggy. WOW... 

Wait until disapproval turns into active sabotage.  

Many people will joking criticize to cover their own insecurities. Thank them for noticing your efforts, reinforce that you are on this journey to ensure you will be together for even longer. If your spouse is genuinely concerned that you are too thin, that is when you should consider having them come with for an office consult with your doctor just to reassure them. If they are actively sabotaging your efforts to be healthy for the sake of your life, then it's time for couples counseling to help them deal with the changes. 

My other half simply goes out and buys food I wish he didn't bring home. Bought a giant king size Pay Day candy bar and left it on the table. It wasn't for him it was to tempt me. I left it there my daughter enjoyed it a few days later. Last night he went out and brought home 2 huge orders of wings. Insisted we needed to have onion rings and mushrooms deep fried. Makes things and says oh I messed this up it needs to be eaten. Really I think not. I tried the onion rings they were good. I explained to him that the wings have 70 calories in each simply not on my list of food choices. I tried them they were good. He told me I was fat and needed to drop weight for ever ago. Out right sabotage. I just smile and do my best. @ Phil your so right. 

Start lifting 😉 

My husband literally forbid me to lose more weight 😆 I said I’m not in q calorie deficit anymore this is my lifestyle n there’s no changing it 

Lol phil my husband literally eats a family size chip bag in bed 🛏 talk about trying to (intentionally or intentionally ) sabotage 😆. Well I got this I eat what I want, not what u parade in my face 🙌🏼 

Un* 

I’m sorry you don’t feel support from her in this...lots of us here in the same boat. Just reassure her that you love her and are doing this to improve yourself. Best wishes. 

I like to taunt my wife about it, her sense of humor is practically non-existent which makes it even funnier. :D 

Awe maybe she doesn’t like all the looks you’re getting! 

Thanks for the support everyone! Today I got an earful about how “you know there’s so many bad things about that KETO diet, (which I enjoy several meals but not doing full KETO). She’s trying to lose # too but won’t listen to or find factual info for herself. Just all the bad things I’m doing to my body. THANKS HONEY Talk to the hand! ✋ Good shedding everyone!  

Isnt that funny how they start saying you look to thin .. as if